My Mahjong game was lovely as always. I have so much fun laughing with those gals. Today is canasta and it's a much more sedate group but nice also. 

So... Here goes. I have a date on Friday. Sounds like a wonderful guy. Dinner at Cityplace. Wish me luck. I have a great feeling about this one. I won't tell you about him until I have his permission though. 

Hope things are totally tits in your world. They certainly are in mine. My WCF texted me and I just hit delete. Poof. Gone. 

Bee

I had a very nice quiet day. My pool time was alone and then the mayor came before I left so we talked some condo business. He has really gone above and beyond with projects. 

I cooked chicken and salad and pasta for dinner and had a quiet evening as well. 

Next up is mahjong with my gal pals. 

Have a beautiful Wednesday y'all. I will too for sure. 

Bee

I must see that this is true and heed the advice. And I fully intend to do so. 

I forgot to tell you something about the movie Bad Grandpa. There are only a few actors in it and the rest are people that didn't know they were in a movie until it was over and the old man is not old at all. This doesn't give away anything, it makes it easier to understand. 

I had a great workout yesterday. 

Andre' took this while I was doing my leg lifts at the end of the workout and he sent it to me. See how my mid section is still so big?  Nothing seems to help that but I continue to try. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all. I will too. For sure!

Bee

This was my only shot of the moon because it got cloudy but I like it. Kyle came down and we watched the funniest movie I have ever seen - Bad Grandpa.  It made me laugh so hard I couldn't think of anything else. He is such a good friend. 

Thanks everyone for all the encouragement you gave me. Such wonderful friends you are. 

Today I have Andre' early and I'm filling in a canasta game after that so my Monday is busy. 

Have a wonderful day y'all. I will too for sure. 

Bee

I'm such a shmuck. Such a dumb Dora. I debated about telling you this but you know me, I let it all out there so here goes...

Yesterday the married cheater called me. It had been more than two weeks since I had last seen or heard from him. I thought I was all done. 

But then I said hello. I knew it was him before I did because it came up with his name, lying cheater. 

He said "Hi honey."  In that split second I almost started to cry but didn't. 

The conversation wasn't much, how have you been kind of stuff. Why did I answer it?  Why can't I block him?  What the hell is wrong with me?  

I have been with exactly three men in my life and two of them I was married to. One brief marriage out of high school and sarge and married cheater. 

Now before my dreary lifed anonymous commenter jumps in here know up front you will be dealt with this time. I am in no mood to be pissed off by you again. I will find your IP address and go from there. You are cordially invited to keep the hate spewing from you to yourself. Oh, by the way, remember you said you weren't going to even read my blog again after you thought I was having an affair with Kyle. Ridiculous. And to the rest of you, please go easy on me - as you always do. I already have Kyle telling me all things a friend would tell someone in my situation. And I'm trying to listen to him. Trying hard. It's so sick all I want to do is cry my heart out - in his arms. But I won't of course. Now I shall paste on a smile and go have lunch with my dear son...

Bee

I found this in my photos, I don't remember where it came from but I love it. Poppys?

So you asked about my date.  It got canceled. Supposed death in his family. Not sure I believe it but who knows.  No matter, I had nothing invested in this one.  

I'm not at all sure why but 20 somethings keep contacting me to go out.  Not going to do it but gosh, they must either want money or sex.  Guess what scooter?  Not getting either.   Seriously dating today is really hard. I almost want to just forget the whole thing and stay home every night. Not sure it's worth the time or trouble. 

Having said that I know I don't want to sit home every night so I suppose I'll try a bit longer. My profile is honest and the photos are all recent. 

Have a wonderful weekend y'all.  I'll be at the pool.

Bee

I swear if there was a way to block that snarky lame a$$ed anonomous commenter from yesterday I would, trust me. I'm pretty sure I know who it is from my traffic and the time they commented but let's just hope they can find some sort of a life for themselves and then they won't have to constantly belittle mine. I'll date whoever the hell I want. I am an adult and I have a mind of my own. 

The only way to find someone in today's world is online. Get that straight. Times have changed. Dating is not easy. Meeting people is not easy. And besides that married creep WAS my age. Where did that get me?  Six months of my life wasted on him. 

To my commenters and others that have supported me, thank you so much. I appreciate your friendship more than you can know. 

To my critics, please read someone else's blog for your own good. Mine is not for you. I am honest and I tell it like it is.   Always. 

Bee

Today Steve and Jane come and shine everything up within an inch of it's life.  Since I don't have mahjong because of the Jewish holiday I'll be at the pool. Working on my flab. 

I have a date Thursday evening. Just cocktails and a light dinner to meet him. He's sort of cute, late 50's, tall, has a job, never married. I know, that's scary right? Of course it could all be lies so I shall have my guard up and only be in a public place, two cars. Totally safe. I'm going to ask for his business card. 

So that's about it in my world. How's yours?

Bee

My full service dentist, he picked me up so I didn't have to drive because he had me take Xanex before the four hour appointment. Plus he had texted me to make sure I feel good. He apologized before giving me the shots. What a guy.  And he's a fabulous hugger. I can't vouch for his kissing as I have never kissed him. I have, however,  thought about it. Oh well. You can't kiss them all. 

Tomorrow is a pool day. Andre' in the morning. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all.  I will too for sure. 

Bee

Today I shall spend four hours in the chair of TCD. I know that may sound like a bad thing but no, to me it's not bad at all.  I have to take Xanex and won't be able to drive so he is picking me up. Now that is dental heaven right there. Hope I don't Miss-Bee-Hav' because of the medication.  That would be a real shame. 

Hope you have as much fun as I will!

Bee