Wednesday, September 30, 2015

My Mahjong game was lovely as always. I have so much fun laughing with those gals. Today is canasta and it's a much more sedate group but nice also. 

So... Here goes. I have a date on Friday. Sounds like a wonderful guy. Dinner at Cityplace. Wish me luck. I have a great feeling about this one. I won't tell you about him until I have his permission though. 

Hope things are totally tits in your world. They certainly are in mine. My WCF texted me and I just hit delete. Poof. Gone. 


Tuesday, September 29, 2015

I had a very nice quiet day. My pool time was alone and then the mayor came before I left so we talked some condo business. He has really gone above and beyond with projects. 

I cooked chicken and salad and pasta for dinner and had a quiet evening as well. 

Next up is mahjong with my gal pals. 

Have a beautiful Wednesday y'all. I will too for sure. 


Monday, September 28, 2015

I must see that this is true and heed the advice. And I fully intend to do so. 

I forgot to tell you something about the movie Bad Grandpa. There are only a few actors in it and the rest are people that didn't know they were in a movie until it was over and the old man is not old at all. This doesn't give away anything, it makes it easier to understand. 

I had a great workout yesterday. 

Andre' took this while I was doing my leg lifts at the end of the workout and he sent it to me. See how my mid section is still so big?  Nothing seems to help that but I continue to try. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all. I will too. For sure!


Sunday, September 27, 2015

This was my only shot of the moon because it got cloudy but I like it. Kyle came down and we watched the funniest movie I have ever seen - Bad Grandpa.  It made me laugh so hard I couldn't think of anything else. He is such a good friend. 

Thanks everyone for all the encouragement you gave me. Such wonderful friends you are. 

Today I have Andre' early and I'm filling in a canasta game after that so my Monday is busy. 

Have a wonderful day y'all. I will too for sure. 


I'm such a shmuck. Such a dumb Dora. I debated about telling you this but you know me, I let it all out there so here goes...

Yesterday the married cheater called me. It had been more than two weeks since I had last seen or heard from him. I thought I was all done. 

But then I said hello. I knew it was him before I did because it came up with his name, lying cheater. 

He said "Hi honey."  In that split second I almost started to cry but didn't. 

The conversation wasn't much, how have you been kind of stuff. Why did I answer it?  Why can't I block him?  What the hell is wrong with me?  

I have been with exactly three men in my life and two of them I was married to. One brief marriage out of high school and sarge and married cheater. 

Now before my dreary lifed anonymous commenter jumps in here know up front you will be dealt with this time. I am in no mood to be pissed off by you again. I will find your IP address and go from there. You are cordially invited to keep the hate spewing from you to yourself. Oh, by the way, remember you said you weren't going to even read my blog again after you thought I was having an affair with Kyle. Ridiculous. And to the rest of you, please go easy on me - as you always do. I already have Kyle telling me all things a friend would tell someone in my situation. And I'm trying to listen to him. Trying hard. It's so sick all I want to do is cry my heart out - in his arms. But I won't of course. Now I shall paste on a smile and go have lunch with my dear son...


Saturday, September 26, 2015

I found this in my photos, I don't remember where it came from but I love it. Poppys?

So you asked about my date.  It got canceled. Supposed death in his family. Not sure I believe it but who knows.  No matter, I had nothing invested in this one.  

I'm not at all sure why but 20 somethings keep contacting me to go out.  Not going to do it but gosh, they must either want money or sex.  Guess what scooter?  Not getting either.   Seriously dating today is really hard. I almost want to just forget the whole thing and stay home every night. Not sure it's worth the time or trouble. 

Having said that I know I don't want to sit home every night so I suppose I'll try a bit longer. My profile is honest and the photos are all recent. 

Have a wonderful weekend y'all.  I'll be at the pool.


Wednesday, September 23, 2015

I swear if there was a way to block that snarky lame a$$ed anonomous commenter from yesterday I would, trust me. I'm pretty sure I know who it is from my traffic and the time they commented but let's just hope they can find some sort of a life for themselves and then they won't have to constantly belittle mine. I'll date whoever the hell I want. I am an adult and I have a mind of my own. 

The only way to find someone in today's world is online. Get that straight. Times have changed. Dating is not easy. Meeting people is not easy. And besides that married creep WAS my age. Where did that get me?  Six months of my life wasted on him. 

To my commenters and others that have supported me, thank you so much. I appreciate your friendship more than you can know. 

To my critics, please read someone else's blog for your own good. Mine is not for you. I am honest and I tell it like it is.   Always. 


Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Today Steve and Jane come and shine everything up within an inch of it's life.  Since I don't have mahjong because of the Jewish holiday I'll be at the pool. Working on my flab. 

I have a date Thursday evening. Just cocktails and a light dinner to meet him. He's sort of cute, late 50's, tall, has a job, never married. I know, that's scary right? Of course it could all be lies so I shall have my guard up and only be in a public place, two cars. Totally safe. I'm going to ask for his business card. 

So that's about it in my world. How's yours?


Monday, September 21, 2015

My full service dentist, he picked me up so I didn't have to drive because he had me take Xanex before the four hour appointment. Plus he had texted me to make sure I feel good. He apologized before giving me the shots. What a guy.  And he's a fabulous hugger. I can't vouch for his kissing as I have never kissed him. I have, however,  thought about it. Oh well. You can't kiss them all. 

Tomorrow is a pool day. Andre' in the morning. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all.  I will too for sure. 


Sunday, September 20, 2015

Today I shall spend four hours in the chair of TCD. I know that may sound like a bad thing but no, to me it's not bad at all.  I have to take Xanex and won't be able to drive so he is picking me up. Now that is dental heaven right there. Hope I don't Miss-Bee-Hav' because of the medication.  That would be a real shame. 

Hope you have as much fun as I will!


My apple pie for the dinner at the mayor's last night. 

Brenda's turkey was fabulous as was all the rest of the meal. It was an amazing evening. 

Today I have lunch with the duck and Kyle is cooking dinner. Am I a lucky girl or what?

Hope you Sunday is fabulous!


Saturday, September 19, 2015

Friday night date night with Kyle ended with a movie, Bernard and Doris. Really good movie.  Roche' quite enjoyed it as well. 

Have a wonderful Saturday y'all. I will too for sure!


Friday, September 18, 2015

OMG this is so delicious. The gals at Mahjong were talking about it so yesterday I stopped in Publix and bought a box. It's almost ten bucks and I think there are six in the box. Totally delicious. Not low calorie though so it's reserved as a special treat. 

Tonight I'm going to Cityolace with Kyle. We're having dinner and walking around. They have outdoor music on Friday nights. 

Now I'm headed to the pool. Well as soon as I've finished my delicious coffee that is!  Have a lovely day!


Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Tomorrow is really busy for me. First I have Andre' and then a hair appointment for the beautox for hair again and then at 4:00 a board meeting. That's a lot of activities in a few hours but I'm up for it. 

Hopefully I will have a quiet evening at home after all that. 

I am watching the debate tonight. Interesting. That's all I have to say about that. 

Hope y'all have a great day. Me too. 


Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Hello my dears. Hope you are all well and having a lovely week. Thank all of you SO much for all the kind words. You all rock. Roche' says he does too. 

Today is mahjong and I'll have some good laughs there sure. 

I'm still a bit cranky but it won't last much longer. I'll bounce back stronger and better. Count on it!


Sunday, September 13, 2015

Well it's Monday again. I hope we all have a fabulous new week. Better than the last one for sure. 

So here goes... I found out after six months that my WCK is married. Liar liar pants on fire. Gullible? That's me. He could only see me one weekday a week. No nights. No weekends. Clue?  Yes. Did I realize it?  Nope. Couldn't take me out to a nice place. Said it was just so nice to stay in. Uh huh. 

So I am naive and dumb beyond belief. The one good thing I suppose is that I have learned a good lesson and I shall move on. Just not yet...

Saturday, September 12, 2015

So it's Sunday so that means lunch with the duck today and the grocery store. 

I'm not ready to talk about the betrayal but if you care to imagine it's the worst I can think of. Needless to say I don't imagine this person will remain in my life. Too bad. Their loss. 

I had a delivery last night from the pool mayor of some delicious hamburgers. How sweet is that?  I sure do have some lovely friends. And one that is not. 

Have a perfectly lovely Sunday y'all. I will too for sure. 

Cityplace was crowded but fun and I enjoyed Kyle's company of course and then we came home and hung out with Ryan when he got home so it was a nice evening. 

Today I am getting my hair done and then meeting a friend for a drink (coffee) afterwards. 

Yesterday I was betrayed by someone. Don't do that to anyone my dears. It's not nice and it hurts people. And that's all I am going to say about this subject. Case closed. 

Have a wonderful weekend. I shall too. I promise. 

Thursday, September 10, 2015

I took this from my bed this morning. Beautiful sunrise for sure. Then I got a text from Ryan to come up and have coffee and eggs before he went to work and I went to canasta. 

Friday is my WCK's day. Not sure what time he will be here but I blocked off the whole day for him and then Friday night I'm going to Cityplace with Kyle for dinner. 

Saturday is hair day. I need a pool day!  I booked Andre Monday and Thursday next week. 

The club is definitely closing in October. It's going to be torn down too. The new owners say they are going to build a new one. I hope so. 

And that's it from my world. How's yours?

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

VOP (Voices of Pride) gay men's choir night at Shout Karaoke in West Palm Beach. 

They are quite good actually with Ryan being the best of all of course. 

A great time for sure. Love these guys. All of them. 

Tuesday, September 8, 2015


The boys hit the gin again yesterday. What a pair they are!  Both of them passed out and snoring. 

So TCD brought me home yesterday.  The duck took me and dropped me off because I had to take Xanax and couldn't drive. Three hours I got to look at TCD too!  Kyle said I am pathetic but I don't think so. Nothing hurt me either. Now I have the temporaries on the bottom and in a few weeks I'll have the permanent ones. 

Next up is Mahjong and lunch at the club. It's closing soon so I want to go take advantage of it as long as I can. 

Then Thursday is canasta and Friday is my WCK again. Busy week. 

Have a lovely Wednesday y'all. I will too for sure!

Monday, September 7, 2015

I tried to swim but the rain came. I waited by the pool nearly an hour before I gave up and came back upstairs. Buggers. 

Today I shall be in the chair of TCD having several hours of dental work done on my bottom teeth. 

Luckily the view will be fabulous so I won't mind a bit. 

Have a fabulous day my dears. I shall as well. For sure. 

Sunday, September 6, 2015

Ugh it's that time again apparently. I never in my life could understand a game with goal posts and no goalie. Who thought this up anyway and why is it exciting?  

Labor Day is my least favorite holiday. It's like the end of summer. At least here I can still pretend it's summer as the days grow shorter. I was in the pool yesterday. It was warm and wonderful. I'm going again today too. 

So is everyone having a barbecue today?   I'm going to try not to eat bad. I have been struggling with food recently and I know I use food for things other than hunger. It's my go to thing for boredom, hurt, anything really. 

Now nothing is wrong in my life so I don't understand why I am struggling. Seriously things are really good for me. Why I am having this difficulty?  I have to think about it. 

Anyway I hope y'all have a marvelous day. I will too. Promise!!

It was a lovely dinner and then we went to the Breaker's for drinks. By that time we were a group of about 20 or so and I got home late. Honestly I was drinking decaf and a glass of water. The music was too loud and you couldn't talk. I left, wished them a good night, and came home. I can't keep up with these youngsters. I gave it a good try though. 

Today I have lunch with the duck. I have talked to him but not seen him this week. 

For Barb who asked what Kyle's shoes said in the photo yesterday, one said CLE and the other said VER. Clever?  Yes. Stubbs and Wooten shoes. 

Have a lovely Sunday y'all. I will too for sure. 

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Happy Birthday Kyle!  28 years young. He sure keeps me on my toes too. 

Tonight we are going to dinner with a group of friends to celebrate and I am bringing the cake. 

My WCK is coming Monday. I had to cancel him on Friday because my handsome dentist called and was able to start my bottom teeth and that was a three hour appointment. I go again on Tursday for another marathon session. He's fun to look at so I don't mind. 

Have a great Saturday y'all. I will too for sure!

Thursday, September 3, 2015

Today is canasta and lunch with the girls.

I've been doing a good bit of online shopping again. Bad girl. I have absolutely got to get into my closet again and get rid of another few large bags of things. Plus I have to stop shopping. For instance last night I found myself looking at bathing suits. I have sixteen already. Now what could possibly make me think j might need another one?  Bad bad girl.  Is that Miss-Bee-Havin'?  In a way it is. 

Have a lovely Thursday. I will too for sure.  And not by shopping! 

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Gosh my posting is all out of whack it seems. Last night I fell asleep and didn't get to it. I'm sorry. 

Today is a beautiful day and I have lunch at the club and then Mahjong with my gal pals. I love those gals. I can say anything and I'm not judged. That is a true friend. 

Saturday is Kyle's birthday so I am planning his cake and we are going out for dinner with a small group. My WVK may come with us. Not sure if he's coming Friday or Saturday this week.  Whichever is fine but I hope he can join us Saturday. I'm always the one without a date and it would be nice to have one. 

Have a perfectly lovely day y'all. I will too for sure!