Thursday, April 16, 2015


Day 27

Today I am having lunch with some gals and playing canasta.  

I wanted to talk to you a bit about some of the comments.  I love them, all of them but I want you to understand that I would never touch a married man.  Ever.  For any reason.  

Edward is not married, he is divorced.  I know this for sure.  I also know why he doesn't have much time right now and I understand it and it will change.  He is giving me what time he does have and has been very sweet to me.  And very caring.  He is not a workaholic or anything like it but rather has a time constraint to finish a project.  

Also it was my idea to have the small coffee type dates to get to know each other slowly.  We are not in love or planning on anything more than some dates and some fun.  I love my life just as it it, I love living alone, I love doing what I please and not having to answer to anyone.  It's all good in my world. 

Now having said all of that I also like seeing TCD and intend to do that as well.  Again we are not in any kind of relationship, just having some fun.  

Will my feelings ever change for either of them or anyone else?  I have no idea.  I will deal with that if and when it happens.

So to the anonymous commenter, please do not fret one ounce.  I am fine.  I am having the time of my life.  I am not putting myself at risk.  I have not "dropped my drawers".  Happy?  I am.

Now leave me some comments about how this is all good and you are not worried about me and you know you can trust my judgement.  Even the duck trusts it.  Now D#1, not so much but she'll come around.  Or not.  But I intend to live my life to the fullest enjoying every day I have on this earth and I don't intend to hurt anyone or anything in any way.

And so my very dear readers, I love you one and all.  Have a lovely Thursday.  I will too, count on that.

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20 comments:

  1. ivanaApril 16, 2015 at 4:08 AM

    Buongiorno!!!

    You are an enjoying wise girl...you have the control of your life...ok, have a lovely Thursday!

    Big hugs, honey!!!
    xoxoxoxo

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  2. Amazing GracieApril 16, 2015 at 4:29 AM

    Well, that comment was just devoured. Hope I don't have what Barb had!
    I was just wishing for a "Like" button for your post. Sarge didn't marry "no dummy," and I sure know you're not acting like one...😉
    The last time (and only time) two guys fought over me was in HS - and I married one of them. I know Edwrd and TCD aren't wrasslin' in the parking lot, but it's good to keep them on their toes!

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  3. Barb April 16, 2015 at 4:32 AM

    I can't wait for your cruise as once again I will have to live vicariously through your blog updates from the ship. Honestly, I can actually hear The Love Boat theme playing and see you boarding the ship as the opening credits start to roll.

    Did you hear that? The ship's horn just blew.

    no. srsly. it did.

    Have yourself a mighty fabulous day again. If you dare. And I know you do, my friend. big hugs xoxo

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  4. Misadventures of WidowhoodApril 16, 2015 at 7:28 AM

    Dating at any age can come with pitfalls and people who misrepresent themselves. It's part of the progress of making new friends, to weed through them. By the time we get to our ages I think/hope we can trust our instincts about the people we meet---male or female. I give you a lot of credit for jumping in the dating pool. I don't want to do it but I'm enjoying reading your experiences.

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  5. JoyApril 16, 2015 at 7:31 AM

    You are wise and careful and I'm happy you have some nice fellows with whom to spend some time. Enjoy yourself! Love and hugs!

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  6. UnknownApril 16, 2015 at 7:48 AM

    You Go Girl!!! After my Mom passed away, Dad had lots of "Lady Friends" he would tell me he wasn't doing anything wrong and my comeback was always "as long as you are happy, you are doing nothing wrong"! I wanted him to be happy and his lady friends did that for him. You are a strong, smart woman so I say ENJOY!

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  7. JapolinaApril 16, 2015 at 7:52 AM

    I'm excited for you. The fact that he is busy working is a great sign. If he was free all of the time, that would be a red flag! Xo

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  8. The Meezers or BillyApril 16, 2015 at 8:27 AM

    Auntie Bee, you just go ahead and have a good time. I knows that you would never do anything, what the mom calls "untoward".

    But I am a little bit jellus, I would like to have a kibble and coffee date with you.

    purrrrssss n xoxoxoxoxo - your Sammie Pie

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  9. Cruisin PaulApril 16, 2015 at 9:06 AM

    Ha,ha,ha. I just loved Barb's comment about the Love Boat theme. Now, regarding your blog this morning. I totally agree with you, you're a very intelligent woman. Like Amazing Gracie wrote, Sarge is no dummy, he knew who he married. He was a very smart man and he knew who he chose for his wife just like I chose Mary Lou. I'm no dummy either. but others might disagree with my comment. Ha,ha,ha. Keep enjoying your life Bee. Remember, Mary Lou & I love you.
    Have a wonderful Thursday you gorgeous lady. See ya.

    Cruisin Paul

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  10. SandeeApril 16, 2015 at 9:55 AM

    I've not read the comment you're referring to, but I'm going to scroll back and read it.

    I'm not worried too much about you. I just know that any guy better treat you nice or I'll have to fly to Florida and take care of business.

    Barb cracks me up.

    Have a fabulous day honey. Big hugs to you and my very best to Roche. ♥♥♥

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  11. coasterwiggsApril 16, 2015 at 1:32 PM

    I have confidence that you are wise enough to make good decisions and still have fun along the way. I am sure your readers' comments were made out of concern for you, because you have such a devoted following. It is nice of you to try to ease their well intentioned worries. I love that you are not afraid to try new experiences/relationships/self improvements, etc. Too many people miss out on life by standing around waiting for things to happen instead of jumping in and making things happen. You go girl!

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  12. Traveling BellsApril 16, 2015 at 4:41 PM

    Of course I have confidence in you and your choices! Just enjoy the ride.

    Big hugs, honey...

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  13. SusieApril 16, 2015 at 6:30 PM

    Bee, You may be blonde...but you are not a dumb blonde. LOL..Actually I think you are a sweet and very smart blonde. I for one am glad you are getting out and about. I remember when I first starting following you....you were using the scooter in the stores...baby you have come a long way. Proud of you girl. xoxo,Susie

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  14. ANGEL ABBYGRACEApril 16, 2015 at 8:48 PM

    Miss Bee
    You keep doing what you're doin and just have fun!

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  15. BobbiApril 16, 2015 at 9:14 PM

    Bee, I have total faith in you to make the right decisions. Saying that, doesn't mean I won't worry about you at times. You mean so much to so many of us, we just don't want to see you hurt. Carry one with your smart and beautiful self. Your look fabulous in your picture today.

    Big Hugs,

    Bobbi

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  16. Auntie PamApril 16, 2015 at 10:06 PM

    Well, let's see. You could make the decision my sister-in-law, your age/situation, did, which is to stay safe and stay inside watching TV, growing sicker and more dependent on her kids. Or you could stick with your decision to enjoy life and every single thing it has to offer. I would hope that in that situation, I would make the same decision as you, and have as many people care about me as you do.

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  17. Auntie PamApril 16, 2015 at 10:06 PM

    Well, let's see. You could make the decision my sister-in-law, your age/situation, did, which is to stay safe and stay inside watching TV, growing sicker and more dependent on her kids. Or you could stick with your decision to enjoy life and every single thing it has to offer. I would hope that in that situation, I would make the same decision as you, and have as many people care about me as you do.

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  18. Jean(ie)April 16, 2015 at 11:14 PM

    Bee dear... You are the one living your life... I think you are approaching this in a good frame of mind. Hugs. I'm so excited for all your new friends. And if life throws you a curveball and finds you a second soulmate, I think it's grand! Grab the gusto and enjoy life. You deserve every bit of happiness you make! Love ya!

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  19. angryparsnipApril 16, 2015 at 11:19 PM

    I was going to mention about some of the comments. But this is your blog and not mine.
    My x (less said about him, I rarely write about him but for you I will) but he was a builder some times he had more time to do things but when a big job was near the end all hell breaks lose. and you have to work hard.
    I know developers and architects, work is rarely 8 to 5.
    You are looking wonderful.

    cheers, parsnip

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  20. krisApril 20, 2015 at 1:08 PM

    You go Bee! Life is way too short! Enjoy every day to the fullest!! Kris in Baltimore

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