Monday, July 20, 2015


This is three year old Bee.  Back then I was Bonnie.  I was a good child too.  Well behaved, at least that's what I'm told.  I don't have many memories at this age.

So the duck is doing well, we had a lovely time yesterday and I had a wonderful phone call from my WCK and then I got invited to dinner by the mayor and his bride and another couple in the building and then Kyle came over after that so it was a very busy day.  I also saw Ryan in the elevator for just a moment, he was here doing something in his apartment and going back to his house sitting gig until the 22nd.  Sure miss our mornings!

Today I have Andre' and it is session #133.  As in my one hundred thirty-third session!  Man, no wonder I am so strong!

So have a lovely Monday and whole new week.  I will too.  And today I am not...

Saturday, July 18, 2015


Ft. Lauderdale


With Kyle


Gennaro and Kyle


I forget with this drink was called but after drinking it I know why!  Kidding, we only drank a little of it and it was a rum punch with fruit in it.  Delicious actually.  And we had Mahi blackened and FRENCH FRIES!!! I had a great day, I really did.

Then we all came back to the condo and watched three movies and ate popcorn and laughed.  I love these guys.  I miss Ryan though and hope he comes home soon.

Today the duck and I are going to lunch and since I didn't go last week I'm anxious to see him today.

Hope your Sunday is lovely.  Mine will be for sure but I won't be...


These are some of Roche's friends.  He visits them often.

So yesterday... was lovely.  He was romantic, attentive, creative, sexy, sweet, and very kissable.  It was a wonderful day actually, the best we have had so far.  He really didn't want to leave but did because he had to.  He had not seen my hair since it was done and told me it was beautiful and he gave it the three f's.  Fabulous, flirty and f&$%able.  In other words, he loved it.

Today I am going to Ft. Lauderdale with Kyle to a restaurant he wants to show me so I'll try to remember to take photos.  He's tons of fun but I miss Ryan so much, I hope he comes home soon.  We do talk and text but it's not the same as our mornings with coffee and chatter like magpies.  

The duck has been busy house hunting, very busy.  Apparently we are in a bidding war here in Palm Beach County, real estate must be booming.  He is offering full price on properties and being outbid by around $5000 each time or even more.  Currently he has an offer on a house with a yard which is really not what he intended but he really liked it so much.

Have a wonderful Saturday y'all.  I will too for sure and I'll try not to Miss-Bee-Hav' in Ft. Lauderdale.  I'll give it my best shot anyway!

Friday, July 17, 2015


Penny wise and pound foolish!

Yes, that's right.  I was going to do my own mani/pedi and I not only spilled my polish but I spilled it ON the rug, the sofa, the ottoman, and the floor.  I guess I'll wait until Steve and Jane come again and see what they say about getting it out but I don't think it's going to happen.  Buggers.

So today my WCK is coming to see me.  It's really sweet that he drives four hours each way to spend a few hours with me.  He has so much work up there now it looks like he'll be there for quite a while.

My hair is still soft, I hope it stays that way.  It's not frizzy either.  She said it would last a few months before I have to do it again.  It was seriously out of control before I did this.  Wild and frizzy and the humidity made it grow fat and curly and wild and did I say wild?

So have a lovely Friday y'all.  I sure will too and I might be...

Thursday, July 16, 2015


Today is canasta and one of the gals was rushed to the hospital with shortness of breath yesterday so I'm not sure we will have a game but I just hope either way that she is okay.

Kyle came over last night and we watched a movie and Roche' was thrilled.  He loves it when one of the boys comes by, he's sure they are there to see him and it's quite possibly true.  He's becoming quite popular.

Maj was fun yesterday too.  I didn't win but only lost a little, a few dollars.  I love those gals.

Have a lovely Thursady y'all.  I will too but I won't be...

Wednesday, July 15, 2015


Today is Mahjong and no pool time.  

Think about this for a moment.  "Save yourself from the slavery of rational thought."  I don't know where this came from but I liked it when I heard it.  I have thought about it a good bit.

So July is half over, how did that even happen?  

Roche' watched a movie with me last night since Ryan is gone for a bit longer.  He is lonely so he sat on my lap and hummed through most of it.  He made me change is clothes during the commercials too and said he wanted popcorn.  It was hard to concentrate on the movie with all the humming and wanting stuff but we managed.

Have a lovely Wednesday y'all.  I will too but I won't be...

Monday, July 13, 2015



This is Gerald. He rooms with Ryan and took me to the fund raiser last night. It was very nice, lots of fun, and successful as there were lots of people attending. Ryan sang beautifully. 

My WCK is not coming today, too much work. He's going to try for Friday. I'll be at the pool today instead.  

My appointment with Dr. Pinsky went very well. My face and neck are right on schedule and I don't have to see him again for six months. 

Andre' beat me up pretty good and I have homework too. 

I'm not playing poker tonight. I just need a week away. There aren't any problems but rather I'm just a bit bored with it. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all and I shall too although I won't be Miss-Bee-Havin' after all. 
Before I get into today's blog post let me say that yesterday's post where I called Kyle my boyfriend, I certainly hope the rest of you know he is not really my boyfriend, it's just a saying.  I got a personal email from someone saying the following:

Today is the last day I will look at your blog. You have gone over the top. Your late Husband who was a conservative and an  American Hero would surely not approve. 

Huh?  MY late husband?  The same one that never met a stranger?  Never cared what your color was, your religion, your sexual preference, your beliefs?  THAT late husband?  Come on!  Get a life and let me live mine please.  I am doing NOTHING wrong.  I have some gay friends.  Period.  I LOVE them to pieces and would do anything for them.  If you choose not to read my blog I really could give a fat rat's ass less sir.  I am not posting your name although I do know who and where you are.  My program tells me that.

Now moving on to something fun:


This show was SO funny.  And SO true.  It's going to go on Off Broadway beginning in October and I highly recommend it.  


We had a fabulous day, the four of us.  Two gals couldn't go and we were sorry about that, they missed a great time.

Today is very busy for me.  I have a doctor's appointment this morning with Dr. Pinsky to check my face and then Andre' in the afternoon and in the evening I have a fund raiser at Shout (a karaoke bar) for one of my many GAY friends that has cancer.  (I capitalized that in case my angry ex-reader is looking, I want him to know that I believe we are all people made by our creator and we are all equal.  Well except some of us are assholes and some aren't.)

Sorry for my sounding off today and my language (although honestly in real life sometimes I get even worse than that).  (And I usually don't litter either.)  Today I am certainly not...



(Tomorrow may be another story, my WCK may be here.  If he is, well, hang on to your hats.  Things are getting spicy around this neck of the woods.  Maybe.  And maybe not.  It all depends on whether you choose to believe me or not! lol)

Sunday, July 12, 2015


This is Kyle, my 26 year old gay boyfriend.  He is a darling guy and I met him through Ryan.  We were instant soulmates.  Sorry I look so bad in the photo, it had been a long day and I was very tired.

So I won about ten bucks at canasta yesterday and it was a very nice game.  They asked me to play on Saturdays but I declined because I have so much going on right now that I don't want another commitment.  I told them to call me if they had a problem and needed someone but that I didn't want to be a regular.

Then I went upstairs because Ryan was home for the evening and we watched a movie.  By the time I came home it was time for bed.

Today I am going to a play with my Mahjong gals and out to lunch first.  I told the duck I couldn't go today, we bought these tickets months ago and he said it was fine.  We'll go another time.

Have a wonderful Sunday y'all.  I will to but I won't be... 

Saturday, July 11, 2015



This is the final procedure for the Beautox for hair and I am very happy with it.  My hair has never in my life been this soft and silky.  I'll post as it progresses to let you know how it holds up.  If I want it curly I can do that too but there is no more frizz and wildness.

Then I got to see TCD and get some hugs and sweetness and an exam too.  On my teeth.  He told me not to bite ice because I chipped one of the teeth on the implants and he replaced that for me.  It's a habit - the ice chewing.  I'll try to stop but I caught myself doing it again already.

Tonight I am going to the dog track with one of my gay boys, Kyle.  He is 26 and it's a date.  He's so cute.

Andre' beat me up pretty bad yesterday.  After the pool it was 100 sit ups and 100 leg lifts.  If you haven't tried that believe me it's a LOT.  But I did it.

Have a lovely Saturday y'all.  I will too for sure!  But I'm not... Miss-Bee-Havin'