Monday, July 13, 2015

Before I get into today's blog post let me say that yesterday's post where I called Kyle my boyfriend, I certainly hope the rest of you know he is not really my boyfriend, it's just a saying.  I got a personal email from someone saying the following:

Today is the last day I will look at your blog. You have gone over the top. Your late Husband who was a conservative and an  American Hero would surely not approve. 

Huh?  MY late husband?  The same one that never met a stranger?  Never cared what your color was, your religion, your sexual preference, your beliefs?  THAT late husband?  Come on!  Get a life and let me live mine please.  I am doing NOTHING wrong.  I have some gay friends.  Period.  I LOVE them to pieces and would do anything for them.  If you choose not to read my blog I really could give a fat rat's ass less sir.  I am not posting your name although I do know who and where you are.  My program tells me that.

Now moving on to something fun:


This show was SO funny.  And SO true.  It's going to go on Off Broadway beginning in October and I highly recommend it.  


We had a fabulous day, the four of us.  Two gals couldn't go and we were sorry about that, they missed a great time.

Today is very busy for me.  I have a doctor's appointment this morning with Dr. Pinsky to check my face and then Andre' in the afternoon and in the evening I have a fund raiser at Shout (a karaoke bar) for one of my many GAY friends that has cancer.  (I capitalized that in case my angry ex-reader is looking, I want him to know that I believe we are all people made by our creator and we are all equal.  Well except some of us are assholes and some aren't.)

Sorry for my sounding off today and my language (although honestly in real life sometimes I get even worse than that).  (And I usually don't litter either.)  Today I am certainly not...



(Tomorrow may be another story, my WCK may be here.  If he is, well, hang on to your hats.  Things are getting spicy around this neck of the woods.  Maybe.  And maybe not.  It all depends on whether you choose to believe me or not! lol)

Sunday, July 12, 2015


This is Kyle, my 26 year old gay boyfriend.  He is a darling guy and I met him through Ryan.  We were instant soulmates.  Sorry I look so bad in the photo, it had been a long day and I was very tired.

So I won about ten bucks at canasta yesterday and it was a very nice game.  They asked me to play on Saturdays but I declined because I have so much going on right now that I don't want another commitment.  I told them to call me if they had a problem and needed someone but that I didn't want to be a regular.

Then I went upstairs because Ryan was home for the evening and we watched a movie.  By the time I came home it was time for bed.

Today I am going to a play with my Mahjong gals and out to lunch first.  I told the duck I couldn't go today, we bought these tickets months ago and he said it was fine.  We'll go another time.

Have a wonderful Sunday y'all.  I will to but I won't be... 

Saturday, July 11, 2015



This is the final procedure for the Beautox for hair and I am very happy with it.  My hair has never in my life been this soft and silky.  I'll post as it progresses to let you know how it holds up.  If I want it curly I can do that too but there is no more frizz and wildness.

Then I got to see TCD and get some hugs and sweetness and an exam too.  On my teeth.  He told me not to bite ice because I chipped one of the teeth on the implants and he replaced that for me.  It's a habit - the ice chewing.  I'll try to stop but I caught myself doing it again already.

Tonight I am going to the dog track with one of my gay boys, Kyle.  He is 26 and it's a date.  He's so cute.

Andre' beat me up pretty bad yesterday.  After the pool it was 100 sit ups and 100 leg lifts.  If you haven't tried that believe me it's a LOT.  But I did it.

Have a lovely Saturday y'all.  I will too for sure!  But I'm not... Miss-Bee-Havin'

Friday, July 10, 2015


Boy howdy today is a busy one.  Three activities all before dinner.  First Andre' in the pool and then I have a hair appointment for the rest of my process and then I have TCD after that.  Oh gosh, too bad I'll have to go see that cutie with my hair just done, right?  It honestly was an accident how that happened but then some things are just meant to be.

I also had a great phone conversation with my WCK last night that lasted about 40 minutes.  We almost never talk more than a minute or two so it was nice for a change.  Seriously our relationship (if you can call it that) is not what you would normally see but it is working for us at the moment.  For how long I have no idea but seriously I am just going with the flow and enjoying my self completely.

Have a wonderful Friday y'all.  I will too for sure and I won't be...



Well, not too much anyway!

Thursday, July 9, 2015



Good morning!  I totally forgot to post a blog last night. I guess it was the whole WCK being here and then my Canadian friends came in and we went out to dinner with them and the mayor and his beautiful bride. Anyway sorry!

Today is breakfast with Ryan and canasta this afternoon. A good day. Hope yours is too!  And today I'm NOT Miss-Bee-Havin'!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015



This is the process from the first step.  Next I have color on Friday and my curl will be back but it should no longer be the wild stuff all frizzy.  We'll see.  I'll let you see it then too.

So last night I won a bit at poker, about fifteen bucks.  I didn't get to work out with Andre' though because it was stormy so we couldn't get in the pool so we tried to go to the gym at the club but the club was closed today which I knew but forgot so I'll have to wait until Friday for that but I did take a nice walk.  I think that might have been a run on sentence.

Today I think my WCK will be here if he can that is, not sure yet but he is sure trying to make it.  

So today I shall either be being wildly kissed and having some fun or I shall be at the pool with my buddies swimming and exercising.  Either way I shall have a lovely day but you can guess which I prefer!

And today I might be...

Miss-Bee-Havin'

Tuesday, July 7, 2015


Well today is just full of events starting with Andre' and then rushing to shower and get to my hair appointment and poker in the evening.  Three activities is one more than my comfort zone but I'll get them all done somehow.

So Dr. Wacks told me I gained a few pounds and now I have to go back again next month.  Buggers.  Plus next month is another cruise.  I'll have to go BEFORE the appointment this time.  Never make a doctor appointment AFTER a cruise and AFTER a three day weekend with barbecues everywhere.  That is your PSA for the day.  What I didn't tell him was that I have lost a few since the cruise.  I sure am glad I didn't have to go weigh in right after!

I guess that's about all I have in my brain for today.  Hope your Tuesday is lovely.  Mine will be for sure but I won't be...

Monday, July 6, 2015


Well Ryan is house sitting until the 22nd so I won't see him much.  He'll be around some but not like our movie nights and morning coffees so I shall miss him.  We might have breakfast this morning before the doctor appointment but that'll probably be the last time.

I think Dr. Wacks may be upset with me this morning as I am probably heavier than my last visit.  What made me make an appointment to get weighed after a holiday weekend is beyond me but it was a really dumb thing to do.  I have to keep myself in check and I have some but not all the time.  It's hard really.  I must do it though.

I hope your Monday and whole new week is lovely.  Mine too!  And possibly at some point in the week I may be...

Sunday, July 5, 2015


Sunday means lunch with the duck and grocery shopping and then the lovely pool afterward.  My upcoming week is really full too, something every day and most days more than one activity.  

And on Tuesday I am having botox for hair done.  My hair is dry and frizzy at times with the humidity and I thought I'd try this.  If I'm not happy it's only hair and it'll grow out again.  I still like the Wen but in the summer here it's just not enough for my curly bleached hair.

Yesterday I went to the Fern House cookout and last night the mayor of the pool brought me hamburgers for dinner and then I went to Ryan's and we watched the fireworks from his balcony and then watched a movie.  It was a lovely day really.

Have a wonderful Sunday y'all.  I will too even if I am not...

Saturday, July 4, 2015


This is Ryan and Kyle enjoying one of my cupcakes and having some fun.  Kyle said it may have been the best thing he ever tasted.  They were pineapple coconut with a whipped creme frosting.

So Happy July 4th y'all.  I am going on a picnic with the Fern House at a park.  I am bringing cupcakes.  It is supposed to rain but we will be under a pavilion so it should be okay.  I'm quite sure I won't be dieting today.  Absolutely sure in fact!

Years ago I always had a party on this, my favorite holiday but now I don't much have it in me to do it.  In fact I am still planning my New Year's Eve party, it's taking me most of the year to put it together.

Hope your day is totally tits.  Mine will be and you can count on that but I will not be...