Thursday, July 30, 2015


Well it's Friday and I know y'all love that. I have Andre' this morning and tonight I have a date for dinner and a movie with Kyle, my 26 year old friend. Kyle's boyfriend, Gennaro has to work so I am filling in.

This is Gennaro on the left and Kyle on the right.  I took this photo when we all went to Ft. Lauderdale a few weeks ago.  What a fun day that was!

My WCK is trying for Monday and I hope he can make it.  I'm sure he wants to as much as I want him to come.  He is on target for his retirement but it's sure hard until then. Will this last?  I have no idea but I do like him.  Especially when he is kissing me!

But today I am not Miss-Bee-Havin'!

Tonight is the full moon but I took this last night. 

Today I have canasta at the club. It's still open. For now anyway. And the food in the grill room is still really good too so I am thankful for as long as it lasts. 

No WCK yet. He's working so much but that's a very good thing. 

Have a lovely Thursday.  I shall too. 


Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Yesterday Andre' worked me out of the pool, then in the pool, then out of it again.  I felt great afterwards but a bit sore.  

Last night I made a big salad and Kyle and Ryan cooked steaks and we had them sliced up on top of the salad and dinner was delicious.  I love those guys.  I am so lucky they are in my life, I swear I am.

Today I have Mahjong and it will be the last time I think for a while because so many are traveling for the rest of the summer.  It's okay though because I can go to the pool, it's so lovely in that water.

Because you asked about my WCK I'll tell you he is working so many hours now we just haven't been able to get together but will as soon as he can.  He calls though.

Have a fabulous Wednesday y'all.  You know I will too.  I always do.

Monday, July 27, 2015

Tuesday is Andre' and the pool. He had my arms looking pretty great but my belly still sucks. I don't know what else to do but eat less. I really can't work any harder than I already am. All the sit ups and leg lifts and crunches are not budging my bulges. 

I am not playing poker tonight but rather going up to Ryan's for dinner. I am making salad and he is broiling steak to slice and put on top the salad. Sound good?  I thought so. And I am making homemade dressing. 

So that shall be my Tuesday. How about yours?

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Monday again. A new week full of possibilities. I hope we all have a wonderful week. Roche' and Reggie are now "in a relationship" according to their Facebook status. I wonder how long it will last. 

I had a lovely weekend but did eat a bit too much. I  really trying to get back on track. Once you get started its easier to continue but that first few days are so hard. 

Hope your world rocks y'all. Mine does. 

Today is the duck and I do look forward to our time together.  But I am back on my diet hard again, I have gained a few pounds recently.  I was just sloppy about my eating, a bite here, some bread there, you know, it adds up fast.  It comes on fast and leaves slow too.  I refuse to get out of control ever again.  Simply refuse.

Hopefully it will be nice when I get home so I can get in the pool too.  Yesterday I went down there but ended up not getting in.  It got overcast and it just didn't seem like something I felt like doing so I came back upstairs and got my shower and walked instead.

Have a lovely Sunday y'all.  I will too, for sure.  But I am not...

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Today my WCK is not coming but I am having dinner with Kyle and going to the pool in the morning so it's a good day.  Monday is now the day he can visit me.

Last night I cooked dinner for Kyle and Gennaro and it was a lot of fun, those two are such a hoot to be around.  Love them both.  We are planning a trip to the keys in the fall together.  Ryan is off on a weekend trip with some of his friends.

So the weekend is here and I know y'all love that.  Me too but then I love every day.  Every one is magical.  Truly magical...

Friday, July 24, 2015

Gosh I just looked at the calendar and there is only one more week left in July.  Summer is flying by at lightening speed.

Today Andre' will be beating the hell out of me training me.  But seriously I do love my workouts and look forward to them.  I always feel SO good afterward, all my muscles feel wonderful.

Not sure yet when my WCK is coming back but possibly tomorrow.  I also look forward to those days!

Last night I went to dinner with Ryan and Kyle and I ate some ribs and they were really good but I shouldn't eat those.  I did only eat half of my half rack so about three but still...

Have a wonderful Friday y'all.  I will too for sure.  And today I won't be ---

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Roche' is totally smitten with Reggie. Kyle is moving out today and Roche' is devastated. 

So I had a lovely surprise last night. D#1 arrived for an appointment with TCD today so I'll get to see him too. How good is that?

So I shall make this short and go spend time with her now.  

(not) Miss-Bee-Havin'

Yesterday was a lovely day. The pool was amazing and I had lots of friends out there to talk to. Then I came in and cooked a bit and then poker was good, I won a good bit. 

Then after that my WCK called and we had a lovely conversation. I'm still not sure when he will be here again but as soon as possible I know. He has lots of work and that is a good thing. 

Today is super busy but it's all good stuff including Mahjong. 

Have a wonderful Wednesday. I will too. For sure. 


Tuesday, July 21, 2015

So yesterday I come back from the pool and found Kyle's sock monkey, Reginald and Roche' in each other's arms and they found the gin and Reggie had on Roche's thong.  What a pair they are.  They tried to hack my Facebook page and Reggie found one of my credit cards and my Amazon account and he was off and running.  Roche' is never going to go on another cruise when he can stay with such fun friends.  I told him he wasn't old enough to drink and he said he was as old as the earth and you know what?  He's right.  So I lost that argument.

Oh, and Andre' kicked my butt too.  May have been my best workout yet.  30 minutes in the pool followed by throwing the heavy ball thingy and pulling on those stretchy things and squats and ending with 100 leg lifts and some wonderful stretches.

So that was my day, how was yours?

Monday, July 20, 2015

This is three year old Bee.  Back then I was Bonnie.  I was a good child too.  Well behaved, at least that's what I'm told.  I don't have many memories at this age.

So the duck is doing well, we had a lovely time yesterday and I had a wonderful phone call from my WCK and then I got invited to dinner by the mayor and his bride and another couple in the building and then Kyle came over after that so it was a very busy day.  I also saw Ryan in the elevator for just a moment, he was here doing something in his apartment and going back to his house sitting gig until the 22nd.  Sure miss our mornings!

Today I have Andre' and it is session #133.  As in my one hundred thirty-third session!  Man, no wonder I am so strong!

So have a lovely Monday and whole new week.  I will too.  And today I am not...

Saturday, July 18, 2015

Ft. Lauderdale

With Kyle

Gennaro and Kyle

I forget with this drink was called but after drinking it I know why!  Kidding, we only drank a little of it and it was a rum punch with fruit in it.  Delicious actually.  And we had Mahi blackened and FRENCH FRIES!!! I had a great day, I really did.

Then we all came back to the condo and watched three movies and ate popcorn and laughed.  I love these guys.  I miss Ryan though and hope he comes home soon.

Today the duck and I are going to lunch and since I didn't go last week I'm anxious to see him today.

Hope your Sunday is lovely.  Mine will be for sure but I won't be...

These are some of Roche's friends.  He visits them often.

So yesterday... was lovely.  He was romantic, attentive, creative, sexy, sweet, and very kissable.  It was a wonderful day actually, the best we have had so far.  He really didn't want to leave but did because he had to.  He had not seen my hair since it was done and told me it was beautiful and he gave it the three f's.  Fabulous, flirty and f&$%able.  In other words, he loved it.

Today I am going to Ft. Lauderdale with Kyle to a restaurant he wants to show me so I'll try to remember to take photos.  He's tons of fun but I miss Ryan so much, I hope he comes home soon.  We do talk and text but it's not the same as our mornings with coffee and chatter like magpies.  

The duck has been busy house hunting, very busy.  Apparently we are in a bidding war here in Palm Beach County, real estate must be booming.  He is offering full price on properties and being outbid by around $5000 each time or even more.  Currently he has an offer on a house with a yard which is really not what he intended but he really liked it so much.

Have a wonderful Saturday y'all.  I will too for sure and I'll try not to Miss-Bee-Hav' in Ft. Lauderdale.  I'll give it my best shot anyway!

Friday, July 17, 2015

Penny wise and pound foolish!

Yes, that's right.  I was going to do my own mani/pedi and I not only spilled my polish but I spilled it ON the rug, the sofa, the ottoman, and the floor.  I guess I'll wait until Steve and Jane come again and see what they say about getting it out but I don't think it's going to happen.  Buggers.

So today my WCK is coming to see me.  It's really sweet that he drives four hours each way to spend a few hours with me.  He has so much work up there now it looks like he'll be there for quite a while.

My hair is still soft, I hope it stays that way.  It's not frizzy either.  She said it would last a few months before I have to do it again.  It was seriously out of control before I did this.  Wild and frizzy and the humidity made it grow fat and curly and wild and did I say wild?

So have a lovely Friday y'all.  I sure will too and I might be...

Thursday, July 16, 2015

Today is canasta and one of the gals was rushed to the hospital with shortness of breath yesterday so I'm not sure we will have a game but I just hope either way that she is okay.

Kyle came over last night and we watched a movie and Roche' was thrilled.  He loves it when one of the boys comes by, he's sure they are there to see him and it's quite possibly true.  He's becoming quite popular.

Maj was fun yesterday too.  I didn't win but only lost a little, a few dollars.  I love those gals.

Have a lovely Thursady y'all.  I will too but I won't be...

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Today is Mahjong and no pool time.  

Think about this for a moment.  "Save yourself from the slavery of rational thought."  I don't know where this came from but I liked it when I heard it.  I have thought about it a good bit.

So July is half over, how did that even happen?  

Roche' watched a movie with me last night since Ryan is gone for a bit longer.  He is lonely so he sat on my lap and hummed through most of it.  He made me change is clothes during the commercials too and said he wanted popcorn.  It was hard to concentrate on the movie with all the humming and wanting stuff but we managed.

Have a lovely Wednesday y'all.  I will too but I won't be...

Monday, July 13, 2015

This is Gerald. He rooms with Ryan and took me to the fund raiser last night. It was very nice, lots of fun, and successful as there were lots of people attending. Ryan sang beautifully. 

My WCK is not coming today, too much work. He's going to try for Friday. I'll be at the pool today instead.  

My appointment with Dr. Pinsky went very well. My face and neck are right on schedule and I don't have to see him again for six months. 

Andre' beat me up pretty good and I have homework too. 

I'm not playing poker tonight. I just need a week away. There aren't any problems but rather I'm just a bit bored with it. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all and I shall too although I won't be Miss-Bee-Havin' after all. 
Before I get into today's blog post let me say that yesterday's post where I called Kyle my boyfriend, I certainly hope the rest of you know he is not really my boyfriend, it's just a saying.  I got a personal email from someone saying the following:

Today is the last day I will look at your blog. You have gone over the top. Your late Husband who was a conservative and an  American Hero would surely not approve. 

Huh?  MY late husband?  The same one that never met a stranger?  Never cared what your color was, your religion, your sexual preference, your beliefs?  THAT late husband?  Come on!  Get a life and let me live mine please.  I am doing NOTHING wrong.  I have some gay friends.  Period.  I LOVE them to pieces and would do anything for them.  If you choose not to read my blog I really could give a fat rat's ass less sir.  I am not posting your name although I do know who and where you are.  My program tells me that.

Now moving on to something fun:

This show was SO funny.  And SO true.  It's going to go on Off Broadway beginning in October and I highly recommend it.  

We had a fabulous day, the four of us.  Two gals couldn't go and we were sorry about that, they missed a great time.

Today is very busy for me.  I have a doctor's appointment this morning with Dr. Pinsky to check my face and then Andre' in the afternoon and in the evening I have a fund raiser at Shout (a karaoke bar) for one of my many GAY friends that has cancer.  (I capitalized that in case my angry ex-reader is looking, I want him to know that I believe we are all people made by our creator and we are all equal.  Well except some of us are assholes and some aren't.)

Sorry for my sounding off today and my language (although honestly in real life sometimes I get even worse than that).  (And I usually don't litter either.)  Today I am certainly not...

(Tomorrow may be another story, my WCK may be here.  If he is, well, hang on to your hats.  Things are getting spicy around this neck of the woods.  Maybe.  And maybe not.  It all depends on whether you choose to believe me or not! lol)

Sunday, July 12, 2015

This is Kyle, my 26 year old gay boyfriend.  He is a darling guy and I met him through Ryan.  We were instant soulmates.  Sorry I look so bad in the photo, it had been a long day and I was very tired.

So I won about ten bucks at canasta yesterday and it was a very nice game.  They asked me to play on Saturdays but I declined because I have so much going on right now that I don't want another commitment.  I told them to call me if they had a problem and needed someone but that I didn't want to be a regular.

Then I went upstairs because Ryan was home for the evening and we watched a movie.  By the time I came home it was time for bed.

Today I am going to a play with my Mahjong gals and out to lunch first.  I told the duck I couldn't go today, we bought these tickets months ago and he said it was fine.  We'll go another time.

Have a wonderful Sunday y'all.  I will to but I won't be... 

Saturday, July 11, 2015

This is the final procedure for the Beautox for hair and I am very happy with it.  My hair has never in my life been this soft and silky.  I'll post as it progresses to let you know how it holds up.  If I want it curly I can do that too but there is no more frizz and wildness.

Then I got to see TCD and get some hugs and sweetness and an exam too.  On my teeth.  He told me not to bite ice because I chipped one of the teeth on the implants and he replaced that for me.  It's a habit - the ice chewing.  I'll try to stop but I caught myself doing it again already.

Tonight I am going to the dog track with one of my gay boys, Kyle.  He is 26 and it's a date.  He's so cute.

Andre' beat me up pretty bad yesterday.  After the pool it was 100 sit ups and 100 leg lifts.  If you haven't tried that believe me it's a LOT.  But I did it.

Have a lovely Saturday y'all.  I will too for sure!  But I'm not... Miss-Bee-Havin'

Friday, July 10, 2015

Boy howdy today is a busy one.  Three activities all before dinner.  First Andre' in the pool and then I have a hair appointment for the rest of my process and then I have TCD after that.  Oh gosh, too bad I'll have to go see that cutie with my hair just done, right?  It honestly was an accident how that happened but then some things are just meant to be.

I also had a great phone conversation with my WCK last night that lasted about 40 minutes.  We almost never talk more than a minute or two so it was nice for a change.  Seriously our relationship (if you can call it that) is not what you would normally see but it is working for us at the moment.  For how long I have no idea but seriously I am just going with the flow and enjoying my self completely.

Have a wonderful Friday y'all.  I will too for sure and I won't be...

Well, not too much anyway!

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Good morning!  I totally forgot to post a blog last night. I guess it was the whole WCK being here and then my Canadian friends came in and we went out to dinner with them and the mayor and his beautiful bride. Anyway sorry!

Today is breakfast with Ryan and canasta this afternoon. A good day. Hope yours is too!  And today I'm NOT Miss-Bee-Havin'!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

This is the process from the first step.  Next I have color on Friday and my curl will be back but it should no longer be the wild stuff all frizzy.  We'll see.  I'll let you see it then too.

So last night I won a bit at poker, about fifteen bucks.  I didn't get to work out with Andre' though because it was stormy so we couldn't get in the pool so we tried to go to the gym at the club but the club was closed today which I knew but forgot so I'll have to wait until Friday for that but I did take a nice walk.  I think that might have been a run on sentence.

Today I think my WCK will be here if he can that is, not sure yet but he is sure trying to make it.  

So today I shall either be being wildly kissed and having some fun or I shall be at the pool with my buddies swimming and exercising.  Either way I shall have a lovely day but you can guess which I prefer!

And today I might be...


Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Well today is just full of events starting with Andre' and then rushing to shower and get to my hair appointment and poker in the evening.  Three activities is one more than my comfort zone but I'll get them all done somehow.

So Dr. Wacks told me I gained a few pounds and now I have to go back again next month.  Buggers.  Plus next month is another cruise.  I'll have to go BEFORE the appointment this time.  Never make a doctor appointment AFTER a cruise and AFTER a three day weekend with barbecues everywhere.  That is your PSA for the day.  What I didn't tell him was that I have lost a few since the cruise.  I sure am glad I didn't have to go weigh in right after!

I guess that's about all I have in my brain for today.  Hope your Tuesday is lovely.  Mine will be for sure but I won't be...

Monday, July 6, 2015

Well Ryan is house sitting until the 22nd so I won't see him much.  He'll be around some but not like our movie nights and morning coffees so I shall miss him.  We might have breakfast this morning before the doctor appointment but that'll probably be the last time.

I think Dr. Wacks may be upset with me this morning as I am probably heavier than my last visit.  What made me make an appointment to get weighed after a holiday weekend is beyond me but it was a really dumb thing to do.  I have to keep myself in check and I have some but not all the time.  It's hard really.  I must do it though.

I hope your Monday and whole new week is lovely.  Mine too!  And possibly at some point in the week I may be...

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Sunday means lunch with the duck and grocery shopping and then the lovely pool afterward.  My upcoming week is really full too, something every day and most days more than one activity.  

And on Tuesday I am having botox for hair done.  My hair is dry and frizzy at times with the humidity and I thought I'd try this.  If I'm not happy it's only hair and it'll grow out again.  I still like the Wen but in the summer here it's just not enough for my curly bleached hair.

Yesterday I went to the Fern House cookout and last night the mayor of the pool brought me hamburgers for dinner and then I went to Ryan's and we watched the fireworks from his balcony and then watched a movie.  It was a lovely day really.

Have a wonderful Sunday y'all.  I will too even if I am not...

Saturday, July 4, 2015

This is Ryan and Kyle enjoying one of my cupcakes and having some fun.  Kyle said it may have been the best thing he ever tasted.  They were pineapple coconut with a whipped creme frosting.

So Happy July 4th y'all.  I am going on a picnic with the Fern House at a park.  I am bringing cupcakes.  It is supposed to rain but we will be under a pavilion so it should be okay.  I'm quite sure I won't be dieting today.  Absolutely sure in fact!

Years ago I always had a party on this, my favorite holiday but now I don't much have it in me to do it.  In fact I am still planning my New Year's Eve party, it's taking me most of the year to put it together.

Hope your day is totally tits.  Mine will be and you can count on that but I will not be...