Saturday, October 3, 2015

Sunday means lunch with the duck. He bought a new car yesterday. He said he has stopped looking for a house for now, that it became too expensive for him paying for all the inspections and the deals falling through. 

Then in the evening I am cooking for Kyle and Ryan. Chicken and salad. Not chicken salad, barbecued chicken and green salad. 

And in between those two activities I want to swim so it's a busy day. 

Have a great one!  I will too. 


Friday, October 2, 2015

One hour!  Andre' kicked my butt today. I know I needed it though so he's doing the right thing. 

Now it's time for a half hour nap so I don't fall asleep on my date tonight. Well not literally 'on' him but you know. 

Later babies!


When I opened my eyes this is what I saw this morning. I have no idea what it is and have never seen anything like it. 

So tonight is my date with TDH. That's tall, dark, and handsome. Kyle picked out my clothes last night. Hopefully it will actually happen and I can take a photo and show you. 

Have a marvelous day my dears. I shall too for sure!


Thursday, October 1, 2015

This is what I saw when I opened my eyes. Every morning it's like a different landscape painting. I am so lucky. 

So tomorrow night is my date with my new guy. He should pick me up close to 8:00 and we are going to dinner. He said I can put a photo of us on the blog so I will show you when we take one. He's very handsome actually and very sweet and attentive. 

Andre' will be beating me up at 10:00 at the pool. Oh, did I tell you the (self appointed) mayor (of the pool) brought me a delicious chicken breast last night.  So sweet!

Hope your friday is as good as mine!


Wednesday, September 30, 2015

My Mahjong game was lovely as always. I have so much fun laughing with those gals. Today is canasta and it's a much more sedate group but nice also. 

So... Here goes. I have a date on Friday. Sounds like a wonderful guy. Dinner at Cityplace. Wish me luck. I have a great feeling about this one. I won't tell you about him until I have his permission though. 

Hope things are totally tits in your world. They certainly are in mine. My WCF texted me and I just hit delete. Poof. Gone. 


Tuesday, September 29, 2015

I had a very nice quiet day. My pool time was alone and then the mayor came before I left so we talked some condo business. He has really gone above and beyond with projects. 

I cooked chicken and salad and pasta for dinner and had a quiet evening as well. 

Next up is mahjong with my gal pals. 

Have a beautiful Wednesday y'all. I will too for sure. 


Monday, September 28, 2015

I must see that this is true and heed the advice. And I fully intend to do so. 

I forgot to tell you something about the movie Bad Grandpa. There are only a few actors in it and the rest are people that didn't know they were in a movie until it was over and the old man is not old at all. This doesn't give away anything, it makes it easier to understand. 

I had a great workout yesterday. 

Andre' took this while I was doing my leg lifts at the end of the workout and he sent it to me. See how my mid section is still so big?  Nothing seems to help that but I continue to try. 

Have a lovely Tuesday y'all. I will too. For sure!


Sunday, September 27, 2015

This was my only shot of the moon because it got cloudy but I like it. Kyle came down and we watched the funniest movie I have ever seen - Bad Grandpa.  It made me laugh so hard I couldn't think of anything else. He is such a good friend. 

Thanks everyone for all the encouragement you gave me. Such wonderful friends you are. 

Today I have Andre' early and I'm filling in a canasta game after that so my Monday is busy. 

Have a wonderful day y'all. I will too for sure. 


I'm such a shmuck. Such a dumb Dora. I debated about telling you this but you know me, I let it all out there so here goes...

Yesterday the married cheater called me. It had been more than two weeks since I had last seen or heard from him. I thought I was all done. 

But then I said hello. I knew it was him before I did because it came up with his name, lying cheater. 

He said "Hi honey."  In that split second I almost started to cry but didn't. 

The conversation wasn't much, how have you been kind of stuff. Why did I answer it?  Why can't I block him?  What the hell is wrong with me?  

I have been with exactly three men in my life and two of them I was married to. One brief marriage out of high school and sarge and married cheater. 

Now before my dreary lifed anonymous commenter jumps in here know up front you will be dealt with this time. I am in no mood to be pissed off by you again. I will find your IP address and go from there. You are cordially invited to keep the hate spewing from you to yourself. Oh, by the way, remember you said you weren't going to even read my blog again after you thought I was having an affair with Kyle. Ridiculous. And to the rest of you, please go easy on me - as you always do. I already have Kyle telling me all things a friend would tell someone in my situation. And I'm trying to listen to him. Trying hard. It's so sick all I want to do is cry my heart out - in his arms. But I won't of course. Now I shall paste on a smile and go have lunch with my dear son...


Saturday, September 26, 2015

I found this in my photos, I don't remember where it came from but I love it. Poppys?

So you asked about my date.  It got canceled. Supposed death in his family. Not sure I believe it but who knows.  No matter, I had nothing invested in this one.  

I'm not at all sure why but 20 somethings keep contacting me to go out.  Not going to do it but gosh, they must either want money or sex.  Guess what scooter?  Not getting either.   Seriously dating today is really hard. I almost want to just forget the whole thing and stay home every night. Not sure it's worth the time or trouble. 

Having said that I know I don't want to sit home every night so I suppose I'll try a bit longer. My profile is honest and the photos are all recent. 

Have a wonderful weekend y'all.  I'll be at the pool.